Men Behaving Badly (But It’s Totally Cool, Okay?)

Both my hands and my feet cannot count the number of men that act like nasty little shits toward people and yet are forgiven for their transgressions while I can only count on one hand the number of women that are given the same grace for the same crime. This has come to my attention because I recently found out that an emo band called The Used are unable to cross the Canadian border for the Canadian Warped Tour because according to frontman, Bert McCracken, he has criminal record. Even though it could be fixed if they just simply went into the border office with their lawyer and asked for a Temporary Residents Permit to enter Canada. But there seems to be no border that men like McCracken will not cross in order to display himself as a “rebel.”

Nonetheless, it’s just so goddamn embarrassing that these idiots never stopped to think about how their actions could effect their chances of entering Canada. Surprisingly, none of the other countries they have toured so far seem to have a problem with McCracken’s criminal record. A quick skim over to the comments section of this article and you start to see how their fans are defending them for their actions. It is irritating that society is willing to excuse men for their crimes while women get condemned for even so much as sipping on a beer! Yet, we dare call ourselves a ” post-feminist society.” If this is what a “post-feminist society” then I would hate to see what “an equal sexual relationship” looks like.

It’s also apparent in male internet personalities like Felix Kjellberg (AKA “PewDiePie”) can shout “rape” at everything and he gets rewarded with a Youtube Partnership and make millions of dollars from screaming at nothing and bragging about his success. Even if he makes an incest joke, no criticism is made in the comment section of his videos. Whenever there is a critic in the sea of easily entertained fanboys, they swarm like piranhas and defend his actions. The logic of people who are fans of men like PewDiePie is almost inhumane and shocking. Not only that; it is a classic case of the Liberal think-tank of “personal interpretation.” Not only is this argument abused and misused constantly, it is used in the wrong context. That is what you expect from teenagers trying to act intellectual on the internet, teenagers that do not understand the difference between a joke and some Swedish guy screaming obscenities on the internet. No wonder older people think that the majority of the young have ADD. This video demonstrates their lack of logic and reasoning. Bad spelling and all. The crappy part of it all is that a female Youtuber who puts effort into their content and works hard at trying to be entertaining has at least 600 subscribers while men like PewDiePie who puts no effort into their content has 3,000,000 subscribers and counting!

The double standards are so obvious and clear that a young child can spot them. The worse part is that no one except feminists and womanists are seeing this and offering solutions to this bullshit double standard problem. And no one is listening, they don’t want to know about how bad our society is. All they want to see is the positive when the reality is that the negative outweighs the positive. There is a time and place for optimism and it is not when an analysis is being made on societal structures. The time and place for optimism is when positive energy is needed for revolutionary action. The problem is that people are so trained in the self-help mantra of “looking for the light at the end of the tunnel” that they don’t see why the darkness is there in the first place. Self-help books will not dismantle patriarchy and neither will self-help thinking, it’s far too individualistic when individualism is not needed.

If you need more proof of men acting badly just look at this recent case. This case involves the frontman of lostprophets, Ian Watkins, is being charged with plotting to rape a baby! If this is not further evidence of the evils of patriarchy then I have no hope for humanity to actually understand how oppression works. If we lived in a “post feminist” society, stories and reports like this would not exist and if it did happen, the men would be condemned right on the spot. The Independent was smart enough to not allow comments but what would you think fans of this band would say? Would they defend his actions or say that it’s a “conspiracy theory”?

Lostprophets singer Ian Watkins reappeared in court today over allegations he plotted to rape a baby.

The 35-year-old, whose band has sold more than 3.5 million records worldwide, was arrested with two women earlier this month.

As well as being charged with conspiring to rape a child under the age of 13, Watkins faces five other sex abuse charges.

They include conspiring to engage in sexual activity with two young children as well as making, downloading and distributing child pornography and accessing “extreme pornography” – relating to animals.

He was remanded in custody over the Christmas period with two other women – who also face charges relating to child sex allegations.

The pair, aged 20 and 24 from Doncaster and Bedford respectively, cannot be named for legal reasons.

Today, Watkins and his co-defendants appeared in Cardiff Crown Court via video-link.

All three only spoke to confirm their names at the preliminary hearing, a formality in the legal process, which lasted less than 10 minutes.

Watkins was refused bail and remanded in custody with a plea and case management hearing scheduled at Cardiff Crown Court for March 11.

Are we finally gonna reach a point in our society where bad male behavior is condemned the way it is supposed to? For me? I not completely sure especially when the media has such an influence on our young people; influencing them to not a single critical thought about society. You must try everything in short of nearly killing yourself to fit in or you are nobody. Men, it seems, have no trouble of fitting in. They just have to have total disregard for all living beings without a penis (or even non-human beings for that matter) and they are set for the good life. No boundary or line shall be left uncrossed. No crime will go punished. Just make up some excuse or reason for your poor behavior and you will be rewarded. It helps if you have a following of people that are devoted to defend your shitty behavior as an added bonus.

I know that people will try to defend their behavior and say that I am wrong to make such “judgmental statements” on people I do not know.  I will first ask them to consider this, if these men were women and were caught doing these types of things, do you think they would be forgiven the same way? Does the media and the people that control it really care about the sex of the person that committed the crime? If you looked closely and observed, you would most certainly say “no” and “yes.” You will also observe that men are more likely to do horrible things for attention! And no one cares to notice this? They treat these events like isolated incidents? The very sad thing is that there people who will enable these men, who will not sit them down and tell them what they did was wrong and that need to change.

The constant barrage of misogyny needs to end and it needs to end with men recieving the punishment that fits their crime and that there would be no enablers. These men would then learn that their horrible actions against women and others HAVE negative consequences! I can’t wait until that day comes but it will never come if we just idly sit around and wait for it to happen. Nothing gets done if no action ever happens and no change happens if there is no movement.

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